Men tend to be guilty of quite a bit before a woman leaves..... Is he physically fit? Actually fun to be around? Engaged with his woman? And lastly... how does he react when he loses his job?... Does he immediately hustle that day and not stop until he's found one, or does he take a few days on video games to 'unwind'? A man has a responsibility to understand the nature of a woman, then to understand the nature of his woman, then he needs to act accordingly... as a man.