Yep, I'm an actual bastard. My mother cheated on my dad, he raised me (terribly) as a cuckold. Both, my mother and father, were awful parents, thanks to ancestry.com I now know why. I was my fathers shame and my mothers embarrassment. Jon Snow here. The best part is I come from a family of 4 children. I'm the only one that made a life for myself, I avoided drugs, crime etc., and built a life. Dad lied to me and stole from me, I persevered and succeeded. I, as his only non-biological child did well, my half brother and sisters are welfare junkies. My mother admits what she did but does not regret anything, she is sorry about my poor upbringing, but I turned out ok, so there is that, thanks mom. I only recently did the DNA thing and found out, now everything makes sense. I'm not bitter, I'm superman.