Seems to me that someone is jealous his pecker isn't being sucked. Really it should say "the common day woman is not willing to approach me with a ten foot pole."

Except in the past a woman was expected to obey her husband.

No. Everyone is responsible for their own behavior. If you suck, you suck, and I don't care if you pee standing or sitting. Frequent bars? You suck. On dating apps? You suck. Gut hangs over belt? You suck. Being a moral person isn't that hard, but apparently most people suck.