Tell her you quit your job and decided to be a poet just to piss her off

Now re-write this with your mom as the target audience, and send it as a letter in the mail.

If your family is that toxic just don't talk to them. Let them be toxic to each other and leave you out of it.

Well, maybe move to Poland (seriously) and tell mom she can either move with you or you'll gladly help her out financially whenever you are able. You're the loser but you're the one everyone turns to...keep your head up and put yourself and your future first- including a wife and children. I'm not saying be selfish about it, but, you have to do you first.

Tell her NO! Period. My mom is RELENTLESSLY NEGATIVE. Her entire conversational repertoire is bad mouthing people. Finding fault with everything. Criticizing me.

When I point this out she says that Im too sensitive and cant take a joke. I told her finding whats wrong with everything is not a special talent. Its the easiest thing in the world to do.

She went on and on about her friends son that got a large settlement from SS Disability after years of trying. In her opinion he didnt deserve it. I heard about this every time I saw her for about a month.

My stepdads grandson, about 40, was in an assisted living facility due to health problems. He could only eat through a tube. They were going to visit and he asked them to bring him a carton of cigarettes. She refused because she doesnt approve of smoking.

I told her " probably the only enjoyment he gets out of life is smoking a damn cigarette and you would deny him that?". She wouldnt budge. I said then ill take the guy some smokes! The look on my stepdads face was priceless.

At this point she doesnt even realize that she does it. Its just her nature. Shes old now so its not like shes gonna change. I do need to learn how to not let her irritate me so much.

My mom is approaching retirement and she wants me and her to merge bank accounts and assets so she can find herself a house in Florida to go retire in.

Typical boomer thinking. Pretending that we still live in 1960's and can just buy a house specifically for the purpose of living in without working. And in Florida? Sure, let's all not work and just go to the beach every day while inflation is rising every 3 months.

Boomers will never ever ever "get it." That life before is completely gone for all of us. We won't ever see Social Security, Pensions, Medicare, Vacations, Sick Days, etc that they got to enjoy.

If we want to retire, we'd better be buying a trailer home or a tiny home. And maybe in Montana, not Florida.

I would say don't completely abandon family, but I definitely wouldn't be an enabler of their behavior. You can still love your family and refuse to enable them to act toxically.

boomer

This is how I know you're either a kike shill trying to force intergenerational hatred. Or are a fully controlled cuck who can't see the kike's forced divisiveness as it controls you.

Cut it the fuck out. If we must blame by generation it's; 1 - the greatest generation <----- lost WW2 for Whites, allowed the federal reserve. 2 - millennials 3 - the silent generation <----- marched for integration, allowed (((Hart-Celler)))

Despite even that. It's a fucking jewish premise to hate your own that way. It relies on the false jew lie (false lie, kek) that voting happened for any of the things that slowly ruined this country. In addition it relies on the idea that voting matters. Like. Even a little bit. At all. Which itself relies on another lie - this only takes one word to describe: (((democracy))). Further the lie of the jew media must also be fully trusted for this divisiveness to take hold.

So kindly fuck off. You need to completely re-evaluate your outlook on life if you think the way you speak. I say this because you likely think you're red-pilled when from what I'm seeing you're deep blue.