I was talking to him, and he was again at the bar. Not saying its not normal to go to the bar, but be it any day, he is always at the bar drinking. And if he's not drinking at the bar, he's drinking alone at home. So i think he may actually be an alcoholic at this time. When he came to visit me, his first thing he wanted to do was go to the bar and drink, followed by drinking my entire liquor cabinet. Granted my liquor cabinet isnt that big to begin with, but it was empty by the time he was gone. And i still havent figured out who peed on my mattress, my dog has never ever done this, so i find it hard to believe he would relieve himself on my mattress, when he hasnt done so for the 3 years ive had him. Which makes me think my brother is lying. The second thing i noticed is that he said something to me which threw me off. He met this one girl, but she's a virgin or relatively inexperienced when it comes to sex. Not a big deal personally. But he said he can't date her because he doesn't want to "teach" her anything like kissing or sex, or whatever. He just wants an experienced woman instead. But this made me think, the logic is extremely flawed. In any relationship you will need to learn what the other likes, its not like snapping your fingers and voila, you have a woman who knows the ins and outs of what you like. Now this is not directly related to cucking, but it just seems like he's been so demoralized he's just come to settle for used sluts as the norm. It's so sad to see him destroy his life at this point