Your standards are wrong. The most important thing in finding a partner is shared values. The things you mention will be a given if she has the right values ... that said, no vulgar language? You don’t want your partner to say ‘fuck the Jews’
There's a difference between using vulgar language, and having vulgar language be part of your speech. A lot of times, most women (and men for that matter) are incapable of talking without swearing, because they lack the cognitive ability to use other words.
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