Yeah Let's get shit straight, only your buds are eventually going to get involved I say eventually because while they are all nice people, that's your buds after all, not all buds are made of the same "fiber", it takes a particular "trait of character" to naturally want to get involved, a bit of "crazy" sort of In the end it's not so much just for you/about you, when they decide to get involved, to jump. It's more a case of PTSD kicking in lol