As long as we're throwing bad faith questions back and forth:
What is the use of marrying someone smart enough to not get caught cheating on you?
It was not a bad faith question. You should legitimately reconsider the value of intelligence.
As far as infidelity is concerned, unless you marry a virgin (who is most likely going to be faithful) then you are marrying sloppy seconds anyway. Unfortunately that is the vast majority of girls today. While I do have loyalty on there, it is not without value, it is NOT more important than intelligence. Intelligent girls are less likely to cheat, in my experience; and ultimately it is worse if your wife gets caught. At that point the marriage is ruined because you either become a total bitch to stay with her or you end it. As long as the kids are yours it is pretty meaningless if she has a discrete tryst. It's less likely that she will cheat, and far more likely in any event that your investment in the relationship will last.
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