I ask because My wife and I bed share with all are kids. I assumed, wrongfully. That you didnt bed share. Again sorry for your loss.
It's generally a safe assumption. Most people I know follow the monstrous advice of putting their infant down alone and letting them cry themselves to exhaustion. My wife and I couldn't imagine doing that.
With my youngest when a month old she stopped breathing in the night. My wife woke me up. I rubbed my daughters back, and was just about to do cpr. She just woke up like nothing happened.
Ive been scared by it. I am bow paranoid of my youngest choking. Shes almost 3 years now. So she can eat on her own now. However I will fly across the house if she makes any noise while eating. I still wake up randomly to check on her.
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