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Hi. Today I have attended the funeral of my mother. She was a proud conservative, like the rest of her family. I am very self confident thanks to her, because I am sure about my mother being a great person. I'm still shocked by her sudden death.

My grandmother managed to live until 90 years old without getting sick, so I was expecting my mother to live as long as her. A month ago the doctor said she was dying and there is nothing medicine can do anymore.

I have spent the last month making her comfortable as much as I was able to do. The day she died, it become the first day of the rest of my life. Now I feel like a ghost. I just do things I am supposed to do. I don't think I will be able to laugh anymore as I used to do.

If you have lost your parents too, could you please tell me if it's possible to recover sooner or later from the psychological trauma?

Hi. Today I have attended the funeral of my mother. She was a proud conservative, like the rest of her family. I am very self confident thanks to her, because I am sure about my mother being a great person. I'm still shocked by her sudden death. My grandmother managed to live until 90 years old without getting sick, so I was expecting my mother to live as long as her. A month ago the doctor said she was dying and there is nothing medicine can do anymore. I have spent the last month making her comfortable as much as I was able to do. The day she died, it become the first day of the rest of my life. Now I feel like a ghost. I just do things I am supposed to do. I don't think I will be able to laugh anymore as I used to do. If you have lost your parents too, could you please tell me if it's possible to recover sooner or later from the psychological trauma?

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Sad to hear for your condition. Glad you get a warning amount of time to spend with the family though. Too many times loved ones are gone without any warning. It makes it worse.

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Thanks, it does help to have time to get everything arranged and for us all to get used to it and have some time together. Seems I have a little while so I'll make the best of it.

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Do everything in your power to bring smiles and laughter to that face. Those are what you will remember.