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This presumes that living in the present in a good thing. But those who live in the future are prepared for the worst, and those who live in the past can evaluate the present. Living only in the present is what an idiot would do, or a termite, or a dandilion. We are human beings -- we don't need to be bound by the limitations of the present. We can remember the past, and prepare for the future.

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Living in the present means centering yourself, grounding yourself.

"When you aren’t being present you become a victim of time. Your mind is pulled into the past or the future, or both.

Your thoughts are of the past: what has been, what could have been, what you thought happened vs. what actually did happen. Or, your thoughts are of the future: what will be, what could be, what might be, if…

Of course, it’s natural to spend moments of thought in the past or in daydreams of the future. Identifying impending dangers through associations with things that have happened in the past is important for self-preservation.

But when our lives become dictated by thoughts and emotions attached to past events and potential future outcomes, standing peacefully rooted in the present becomes increasingly rare".

https://www.pocketmindfulness.com/live-in-the-present-moment/

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Your thoughts are of the past: what has been, what could have been, what you thought happened vs. what actually did happen. Or, your thoughts are of the future: what will be, what could be, what might be, if…

You say it like it's a bad thing. My point is that it is not a bad thing, it is natural and right. We live in past, present and future. That's our nature.

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So much knowledge is found within the way.

I think the key to understanding this quote is that your focus can't remain entire in either the past or the future. We all have to learn from the past and plan for the future to make the best out of life. But, the most important things happen when you're completely focused on the present after the past and the future have been accounted for. You enter the flow state, which allows you to be on autopilot and improvise at the same time.

The thoughts come and go in our minds, and it's important to accept those thoughts about the past and the future and reflect them in your present state of mind. I find it the most efficient to come to the "final conclusion" if I start to lock into the past or the future too much. For the past, I try to ruminate on it until I figure out everything I can learn from it. If it haunts me, then I accept it to be that I haven't fully learned everything I could from the memory. For the future, I try to plan for everything I could possibly do to make it come true. And if it still bothers me that something might change and affect the future plans, then I remind myself that I can adapt to the changes as they come up.

wow, thanks that is a valuable piece of info to have. Can't change the past, the future needs to many things to calculate so to much in your head, but the present you just listen and read and then respond wisely and calmly if possible.

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Would you be cool with me reposting this in ?

I won’t do it immediately, but I’m thinking of saving it for later.

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