Thank you for your thoughtful comment. I think your idea about uniformity providing a canvas for freedom of speech is worth thought. It's obvious that people tend to uniformly group themselves by nature. It's also obvious that these groups form ideas that they only share between themselves. It would be very easy for an outsider to misunderstand an "inside idea". of course you could point to sites like this but there are more less obvious examples in our every day lives. Just because something was easier in the past doesn't mean that it's impossible today. It isn't controversial for people on this site to recognize and respect boundaries, but it is difficult for people on that other site. If we want freedom of speech we need to create boundaries and respect them. We means everyone who participates in our society. There is nothing wrong with wanting to preserve your kind. You aren't crazy, there is a trend towards multi-culturalism which is needlessly alienating a significant number of people, myself included. I had a coal burning cousin who paid the toll, i kept my mouth shut, but grandma didn't. Perhaps that's the liberalism creeping into our lives little by little. Perhaps we should be a bit more outspoken. There is no reason why my white babies should be more controversial than her black babies. It shouldn't be controversial to point out that my children are more likely to be successful than hers because I made smart personal sacrifices which include picking a more fit partner. Here we are, thank you for your thoughts!