I've seen pre-marital sex destroy more marriages than anything else - don't do it. It makes it impossible to discern the true nature of the woman. And if she's able to get you to give it up before you're married, you will never be able to peacefully regain power over her.
I will not marry a lifeless, submissive sex doll. Lol no thanks. I'm not abstinent and I don't expect my future spouse to be.
Haha obviously it's your choice; but you're literally trading your innate moral authority for gratification of a base desire, about which you'll be really concerned until you're an old man - at which point you won't give a shit about it. By then, though, you'll probably have forgotten about this. Who knows, though; maybe we'll be long dead before you have to worry about any of that.
Have you ever considered that abstinence could just as dangerous as whoring? Consider the risks of getting married young, of not being sexually compatible with your partner, of feeling forced to marry someone because you had a moment together. There are a lot of really dangerous risks that are often glossed over.
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