You just summed up the entire problem with society in under 50 words. The laws against men in divorce have been around a long time and are worse in some states than others. Even someone making good money is crushed under the current guidelines. Little boys should be told young and often that if their one and only decides she wants to find herself or screw around with one of your friends, you're going to be paying for her life and possible her new boyfriends life for up to 20 years. Way back when I got my first divorce, little girls were told they can do anything boys can do but they didn't really push the indoctrination much further than that. Now we've gone full retard telling girls they don't need men and can do everything better than men and kids just hold you back from your career. Back in the day, women took a great deal of satisfaction in raising their little boys to be good, responsible family men. Nowadays we teach little boys to play with dolls and wear dresses, toxic masculinity. What the actual fuck? I have my own ideas about what the punishment should be for anyone trying to give little boys hormones and tell them they're girls. But that's a discussion for another day.