Listen, have kids. I tell everyone have as many as you can afford, then have 2 more. Now, as many as you can afford might be zero, so have 2 more. Having a family starts with finding a wife. She needs to have better values than you do to keep you on the straight and narrow. She can't be overly educated and in debt and career oriented. I don't mean she has to be stupid, quite the opposite. Want your kids to look like you? She needs to share some of your features, so what do the women of your nationality look like? If this isn't your current gf, dump her. You're just wasting each other's time. Find one that doesn't have much experience; she'll learn everything she needs to know as you go. Having the first kid can be scary. Don't let your wife "eat for 2" like so many women do. She needs to exercise and lotion and not eat candy all day. She'll thank you for it, and her body will too during and after the baby sliding out. Everything will be fine, except they grow up fast and you'll be sad. Hell, I'm sad for you, your kids leaving the nest, having their own kids, them growing up so fast. Don't be a faggot, I gotta go get a tissue.