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Wish it wasn't true. Would love to be one of those brave anti abortion ppl. I'm in the middle. Trad wives are in now, I get it. But to be honest I'm dead afraid of eventually starting a family. I've seen too many women and men become slaves because divorce and low wages. On the other end, not into killing babies. There's no escape? Am I just mental? Lol.

Wish it wasn't true. Would love to be one of those brave anti abortion ppl. I'm in the middle. Trad wives are in now, I get it. But to be honest I'm dead afraid of eventually starting a family. I've seen too many women and men become slaves because divorce and low wages. On the other end, not into killing babies. There's no escape? Am I just mental? Lol.

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[–] • 4 pts

As someone who has a kid. Have kids, it's definitely worth it.

[–] • 5 pts

If you're white and willing to raise them right. Good morals and values. No tv. No jew media. No jew medicine. Home school.

[–] • 2 pts

Yeah true. It's all the "what ifs" and the examples of everything going wrong and just poverty in general that scares me. I'm basically not brave enough at the moment haha

[–] • 2 pts

Find what you love, and get busy letting it kill you.

You don't have to be with anyone, it is programming.

Follow your bliss.

[–] • 1 pt

Shit can go wrong at any time. Don't leave it to long. The older you get the harder it is. I left it pretty late, 40 now and my son is 2 1/2. Is good fun though, he decided to take a shit on the lawn yesterday. I thought it was funny, the missus didn't though.

If you're worried about fucking things up then you'll be fine. It's the one who just don't care that end up having real problems.

[–] • 3 pts

It's your duty to be a man - for your unborn children and for the White race.

Be a man. Educate yourself, work hard, make money, build a business, raise your kids to be the man you wish you could be. Be disciplined in the way that only the superior White male can be.

Yes, sometimes it may be difficult. You might have to struggle and bleed. But the future of the world, and of the White race, depends on it.

[–] • 2 pts

Listen, have kids. I tell everyone have as many as you can afford, then have 2 more. Now, as many as you can afford might be zero, so have 2 more.

Having a family starts with finding a wife. She needs to have better values than you do to keep you on the straight and narrow. She can't be overly educated and in debt and career oriented. I don't mean she has to be stupid, quite the opposite. Want your kids to look like you? She needs to share some of your features, so what do the women of your nationality look like? If this isn't your current gf, dump her. You're just wasting each other's time. Find one that doesn't have much experience; she'll learn everything she needs to know as you go.

Having the first kid can be scary. Don't let your wife "eat for 2" like so many women do. She needs to exercise and lotion and not eat candy all day. She'll thank you for it, and her body will too during and after the baby sliding out.

Everything will be fine, except they grow up fast and you'll be sad. Hell, I'm sad for you, your kids leaving the nest, having their own kids, them growing up so fast. Don't be a faggot, I gotta go get a tissue.

[–] • 2 pts

Just make sure you genuinely love the person you choose to marry. Date them for at least a year or two before you tie the knot. Really get to know them. Make sure your ideals and plans for the future align.

[–] • 0 pt

Yeah. I will eventually need to stop being a bitch. 100%

[–] • 1 pt

I don't think you're a bitch. My wife's preggo right now and I'm worried about it. This world's changing too fast. Once I can save up a little money, I want to sell our house and move to the desert. Get away from it all.

[–] • 1 pt

I have four kids. Go forth and make babies. Its not has hard as media would make it out to be.

[–] • 1 pt

I've seen pre-marital sex destroy more marriages than anything else - don't do it. It makes it impossible to discern the true nature of the woman. And if she's able to get you to give it up before you're married, you will never be able to peacefully regain power over her.

[–] • 1 pt

I will not marry a lifeless, submissive sex doll. Lol no thanks. I'm not abstinent and I don't expect my future spouse to be.

[–] • 0 pt

Haha obviously it's your choice; but you're literally trading your innate moral authority for gratification of a base desire, about which you'll be really concerned until you're an old man - at which point you won't give a shit about it. By then, though, you'll probably have forgotten about this. Who knows, though; maybe we'll be long dead before you have to worry about any of that.

[–] • 0 pt

Have you ever considered that abstinence could just as dangerous as whoring? Consider the risks of getting married young, of not being sexually compatible with your partner, of feeling forced to marry someone because you had a moment together. There are a lot of really dangerous risks that are often glossed over.

[–] • 0 pt

The state has endowed women unequal power in relationships. You must be more steadfast and trustworthy than the state.
Don't give up sex easily, but remain interested. Wait until she qualifies herself enough in your eyes.

[–] • 0 pt

Not mental. Many men, including myself, understand. Also, society/ laws are very much stacked against men in case of divorce. Women are programmed against men. Our society is not healthy; itshould be family-friendly.

Families are great if they work. If you marry, choose carefully.

[–] • 0 pt

You just summed up the entire problem with society in under 50 words. The laws against men in divorce have been around a long time and are worse in some states than others. Even someone making good money is crushed under the current guidelines. Little boys should be told young and often that if their one and only decides she wants to find herself or screw around with one of your friends, you're going to be paying for her life and possible her new boyfriends life for up to 20 years. Way back when I got my first divorce, little girls were told they can do anything boys can do but they didn't really push the indoctrination much further than that. Now we've gone full retard telling girls they don't need men and can do everything better than men and kids just hold you back from your career. Back in the day, women took a great deal of satisfaction in raising their little boys to be good, responsible family men. Nowadays we teach little boys to play with dolls and wear dresses, toxic masculinity. What the actual fuck? I have my own ideas about what the punishment should be for anyone trying to give little boys hormones and tell them they're girls. But that's a discussion for another day.

[–] • -1 pt

I'm married with a son.

Not into killing babies

If there is a complication, or the baby isn't perfect, abort. If you're not ready to have kids (can't afford them) abort. You're bringing another life into this world, it is on you to make sure that everything is ready for them to join you. Their arrival should be anticipated and not a "surprise".

Abortion isn't to be taken lightly though, it can seriously fuck women emotionally, and even physically damage them.

I've seen too many women and men become slaves because divorce and low wages.

If you're a man, get everything in order, get everything you want to experience out of the way, and then have kids with a young woman.

Organise your investments / assets / income such that legally you own next to nothing, and nothing can be taken from you in court. This can be as simple as putting your major asset (house) completely in your parents' names, and "paying" them rent money (on paper), to establishing complex legal entities that hide your real wealth. Everything is either rented, borrowed, or loaned to you through some obscure 3rd, 4th, nth party. Remove the financial incentive for divorce.

Find a young girl. Virgin only. Be good friends with their parents. Do all the paperwork necessary to establish to a court that the relationship is purely professional and in no way a marriage. It will be official to both of you, but not to the state, the court or any lawyer. You could even go as far as establishing her a "surrogate" mother for any kids you have; DNA tests are a given. If you have money, you can pull this off.

The biggest problem now becomes you. Are you going to become complacent and lazy? Are you going to stop working out and working on your hobbies and passions? Are you going to stop striving to improve yourself and become the best man you can be? Are you going to continue to love her and not get bored, fall out of love, or fall into love with another?

Other countries have a much more different system when it comes to arbitrating divorce. In the PRC at least, it's very common to hear of rich (or even moderately successful) men that go off to have mistresses and then end up divorcing and marrying the mistress or getting them pregnant, and the wife has no recourse. This also completely shatters the family and fucks up the kids.

[–] • 2 pts

There's no reason to kill babies. For those who aren't up to the task of raising the child, others are ready and willing (adoption).

https://www.createdequal.org/faqs/

[–] • 0 pt

People aren't exactly difficult to make. Even if you're having trouble conceiving, there are always surrogates, and if all else fails, you're better off adopting from family rather than strangers because there'll at least be a genetic link to you.

There are enough children without parents from natural causes and not enough people willing to invest their life looking after them as it is. And what kind of person adopts someone else's kids? Either someone that wants to feel good about themselves, or is using the kids for some reason (gay pedos).

Honestly though, as long as it isn't subsidised by welfare I don't really care either way. But our tax dollars go to supporting these kids that will eventually grow up to be adults, and then our taxes need to pay for police and jail when they offend in disproportionately larger numbers than the rest of the population.

[–] • 0 pt

If you're not ready to have kids (can't afford them) abort.

Fuck this BS. Nobody is ever ready. Being ready is Jewish tricks to keep birth rates low. You think illegal taco niggers care about being "ready?"