It's not that, but I don't want to insult you, your date or your gay friends. In short it depends on what kind of woman you're dating and what kind of woman you want to be with. If you want to be with a woman that would enjoy watching gay men swoon over you then sure it'll be a good experience. She might even be into threesomes and pegging and you can to totally get it on and have all kinds of carnal experiences. To each their own and if that makes you happy, so be it. If you want the type of woman that you can bond with and have a strong interdependent relationship with, I'd strongly recommend you don't take her to a gay bar on a Monday night for free drinks while being swooned on by gay men, because those types don't find such things amusing. A lady like that would drop you and have no second date and you'd not be able to salvage it. You may find it more apt to just have coffee in a subtle environment and talk a little. Otherwise you could end up in a situation with a live in freakazoid wishing she moves out and afraid your coffee is being poisoned.