lol, its only weird if you make it awkward xD i never used to have an issue hanging out with other guys even when in relationships because i know i'm not a shmuck, so it almost doesnt matter if the other guy is cuz i know where to draw the line and say "NO. Down BOY." now that i'm older and engaged and have a baby i've got a bit of a different perspective, and even if things are going well with a hangout i feel slightly awkward for some reason if its just me and another guy, even if we are both married to separate people. I'd preffer for my mate to be there, but thats always true anyways since i like his company. TLDR: I'd do a double date with y'all, something like a potluck. I'm a bit of a show off and people like to be impressed by food so its a win win