Im not claiming to be mom of the year, ive just been hearing that maybe SIDS is more than a biological accident and i can see the bad guys trying to control the narrative to scapegoat the side effects of vaccinating babies. Not to say babies cant die suddenly and randomly for reasons outside a persons control. That fear is part of the insomnia that keeps me up at night making sure hes ok. I know youre mad at me for coming off as pretentious but i am very sorry for your friends loss, i dont think i would handle a loss of any kind very well