Those things aren't mutually exclusive. What he's saying is "men don't want some dumb slut they want someone who they can be honest with, connect with, and if they have a vulnerable moment won't be viewed differently or degraded for it by them". A partner. Not an accessory.
you really can't behave like this with a woman because she'll just tell her friends the next day
Women dont respect this sort of behavior. Based on what I've seen they find it off-putting. They dont want a crybaby bitch they want to know they are with a MAN who will take care of them and their offspring.
I understand. Thats the problem.
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