Grats dude!
A list of things that helped me:
- Obvious for this forum but if it's a boy definitely don't let them mutilate him. They won't let you mutilate him if you refuse the vitamin-K death vaccine anyway.
- Figure out your pediatrician NOW, find one that is "vaccine-friendly" (means they won't force you to give your kid poison vaccines, dunno why they chose that terminology). This part is super annoying. Many doctors won't even take you as a patient unless you agree, before hand, to destroy your child's immune system and potentially cripple them for life with brain damage or even kill them. If you talk to any doctors that refuse to take you as a patient due to this, make sure to give them a one star on Joogle and state the reason.
- Do not let them give the baby the Vitamin-K shot, it is a black-label shot which can cause instant death (due to polysorbate-80, mercury and aluminum) and is unnecessary. IMPORTANT: Also do not get the "preservative free" version, it's nearly as bad. Get the Bio-K-Mulsion (amazon.com) (not any other brand) vitamin K drops. Give 2x the dose on the day baby is born, and then the regular dose once per week after that for a month and you're good to go.
- Do not let them give your kid any of the other (((vaccines))).
- If you choose not to inject your baby with jew poison, you'll need to limit contact for the first 3-5 months until the immune system is built up.
- If at all possible, have you wife/gf breastfeed. Formulas are mostly garbage. Avoid any formula that is not organic and any formula that has corn syrup as the first ingredient. If you must use formula, research the good brands or look for the home brew formula that you can make with goat's milk.
- Breast feeding is going to suck for your wife/gf at first and she will want to quit and give formula. Don't let her. Our boy is bigger at 7 months than some formula fed 1-1.5 yos. Formula fed babies also have shit immune systems.
- If you absolutely must use formula, try supplementing occasionally with donated breast milk from a donation center. It's expensive as fuck but even just a few bottles worth every month would be good for supplementing immune system.
- Your wife/gf baby-birding food to your baby when he or she is around 5-6 months old both helps the baby learn to eat regular food and also helps strengthen their immune system. Apparently common in a lot of places but not really the West. I recommend it.
- Figure out your crib and changing table situation now. Buy the diapers you will need (nb and 1, they usually come in a combo pack). Buy lots of wet wipes. Get a diaper bag and stroller. We got a stroller that is convertible and has a bassinet part as well as a car seat that attaches to it. Buy a few packs of receiving blankets.
- Co-sleeping will make your wife/gf's life easier, I recommend it. You may feel the need to leave the baby in the crib to sleep for the first few weeks though until they get less fragile.
- Get some teething toys, black and white baby books and the like now. Your baby will be trying to grab and eat everything. Our son didn't like pacifiers much after the first two months but he loves the teething "straws" made of silicone you can get online, because they're kind of like sucking on a finger.
- Find a good White chiropractor. They can help your wife/gf before the birth and your wife/gf and your baby after the birth with adjustments. The adjustments for baby's palate are especially important, but they also help adjust them to help with digestion and stuff. Our son was noticeably less cranky after his visits and my wife noticed an improvement in feeding comfort as well.
Grats dude!
A list of things that helped me:
* Obvious for this forum but if it's a boy definitely don't let them mutilate him. They won't let you mutilate him if you refuse the vitamin-K death vaccine anyway.
* Figure out your pediatrician *NOW*, find one that is "vaccine-friendly" (means they won't force you to give your kid poison vaccines, dunno why they chose that terminology). This part is super annoying. Many doctors won't even take you as a patient unless you agree, before hand, to destroy your child's immune system and potentially cripple them for life with brain damage or even kill them. If you talk to any doctors that refuse to take you as a patient due to this, make sure to give them a one star on Joogle and state the reason.
* Do not let them give the baby the Vitamin-K shot, it is a black-label shot which can cause instant death (due to polysorbate-80, mercury and aluminum) and is unnecessary. ***IMPORTANT: Also do not get the "preservative free" version, it's nearly as bad.*** Get the [Bio-K-Mulsion](https://www.amazon.com/Biotics-Research-Bio-K-Mulsion%C2%A9-Clotting-K1-phytonadione/dp/B00EZFYE30/) (not any other brand) vitamin K drops. Give 2x the dose on the day baby is born, and then the regular dose once per week after that for a month and you're good to go.
* Do not let them give your kid any of the other (((vaccines))).
* If you choose not to inject your baby with jew poison, you'll need to limit contact for the first 3-5 months until the immune system is built up.
* If at all possible, have you wife/gf breastfeed. Formulas are mostly garbage. Avoid any formula that is not organic and any formula that has corn syrup as the first ingredient. If you must use formula, research the good brands or look for the home brew formula that you can make with goat's milk.
* Breast feeding is going to suck for your wife/gf at first and she will want to quit and give formula. Don't let her. Our boy is bigger at 7 months than some formula fed 1-1.5 yos. Formula fed babies also have shit immune systems.
* If you absolutely must use formula, try supplementing occasionally with donated breast milk from a donation center. It's expensive as fuck but even just a few bottles worth every month would be good for supplementing immune system.
* Your wife/gf baby-birding food to your baby when he or she is around 5-6 months old both helps the baby learn to eat regular food and also helps strengthen their immune system. Apparently common in a lot of places but not really the West. I recommend it.
* Figure out your crib and changing table situation now. Buy the diapers you will need (nb and 1, they usually come in a combo pack). Buy lots of wet wipes. Get a diaper bag and stroller. We got a stroller that is convertible and has a bassinet part as well as a car seat that attaches to it. Buy a few packs of receiving blankets.
* Co-sleeping will make your wife/gf's life easier, I recommend it. You may feel the need to leave the baby in the crib to sleep for the first few weeks though until they get less fragile.
* Get some teething toys, black and white baby books and the like now. Your baby will be trying to grab and eat everything. Our son didn't like pacifiers much after the first two months but he loves the teething "straws" made of silicone you can get online, because they're kind of like sucking on a finger.
* Find a good White chiropractor. They can help your wife/gf before the birth and your wife/gf and your baby after the birth with adjustments. The adjustments for baby's palate are especially important, but they also help adjust them to help with digestion and stuff. Our son was noticeably less cranky after his visits and my wife noticed an improvement in feeding comfort as well.
I'd add not to use perfumed bs to clean the kid. That includes wipes. Try to use water with cloth instead if possible. Look out for goatmilk or goatmilkpowder in case you want or need to substitute breastfeeding. It's said to be the closest to actual breast milk.
I'd add not to use perfumed bs to clean the kid. That includes wipes. Try to use water with cloth instead if possible. Look out for goatmilk or goatmilkpowder in case you want or need to substitute breastfeeding. It's said to be the closest to actual breast milk.
>Breast feeding is going to suck for your wife/gf at first and she will want to quit and give formula
These are a godsend according to my Mrs https://silveretteusa.com/ US website but should be able to find a local supplier. Well worth the price. Don't get knockoff/ or make sure actual silver content is on par.
> Buy lots of wet wipes
Try also get reusable wipes when at home and just wash them keep costs low, same with nappies pro tip ;-)
> Co-sleeping will make your wife/gf's life easier.
Stay away from sleep training or whatever it's advertised as. We tried to go this route and it failed every time. Free consultations and paid. Be patient and understanding. We co-sleep now because nothing worked for us. Everyone/baby is different.
>>Breast feeding is going to suck for your wife/gf at first and she will want to quit and give formula
These are a godsend according to my Mrs https://silveretteusa.com/ US website but should be able to find a local supplier. Well worth the price. Don't get knockoff/ or make sure actual silver content is on par.
>> Buy lots of wet wipes
Try also get reusable wipes when at home and just wash them keep costs low, same with nappies pro tip ;-)
>> Co-sleeping will make your wife/gf's life easier.
Stay away from sleep training or whatever it's advertised as. We tried to go this route and it failed every time. Free consultations and paid. Be patient and understanding. We co-sleep now because nothing worked for us. Everyone/baby is different.
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