Yes, but not in the way that you think it is. It is more of a life controller for those who possess one than those who don't. The conventional thinking is that men who seek out pussy are the ones whose lives are controlled by it. While there are some men where that is the case, for the women it is almost always the case. Women's entire lives revolve around their pussies. It controls them, it affects their behavior and it ultimately destroys many of them. They think they are in control because they are the gatekeepers to access to pussy, but in reality their pussies are the gatekeepers to their own self worth, happiness, well being, status, futures and sanity. You know what I'm talking about if you've ever refused to have sex with a horny woman. They get crazy mad and start insulting you and your sexuality. So yeah, pussy is a hell of a drug that most women can't control or quit.