The thing is, I may not have 5 kids and a family but I've lived long enough to know people. They surprise and disappoint at intervals. I know from personal experience that just making a lot of money isn't enough to keep family together. Trad is not what we want, virtuous is. Our society doesn't create nor promote virtues. The power of media and societal control was on display throughout the entirety of the holocough. "Stand here, wear your mask." And the people obeyed. "Hate white people." And the people obeyed. "Get your jab." And the people obeyed... See a pattern? The entirety of western media says to women, "You don't need kids or a family." "Be promiscuous." "Hate men." We don't hate the system of control because its ineffective. Oh, and about finding the time with 5 kids to blow someone... Apparently you've never heard of girls night out. What family man would say no to watching the kids while the wife has some time with her friend/friends. After all it's reportedly healthy to have time to ones self when in a relationship. And I'm not hating on the guy. If he has his wonderful life, more power to him.