Pray for them, spend as much time as you can with them. Really all you can do is turn up the appreciation you have for their presence. I know it's not the same but my husband would often deploy to rather intense combat zones. It made our time together extra sweet before, between, and after deployments. All you can do is be thankful for the good. Everything else is in God's hands.
I'm sorry, by the way. My paternal grandparents are the best people I've ever known. They both took it, and refuse family gatherings. It's wild to watch things like this happen.
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