My younger neighbor and his older fiance are about to get married. We were talking about it this morning. She's 38 years old, and thinking about kids. I said Yup, and you have to do it right now. Bang one out right away, start tonight. She's running out of time. You still have time for two or three if you focus on it immediately. I could see the hesitation in his eyes. So I said, You see my buddy coming up here with his young daughter to visit? He says, Oh yeah, that guy with the big smile on his face? I says, Yup, that guy. He's never been so happy since he had that kid. Turned him into a whole different person. He says, He's a really great guy. Nope I said, He's violent and extremely dangerous, (he is,) but the kid did that to him. Having that kid transformed his whole life, and gave him new purpose and new direction like nothing else ever could. Now he has to be there for her, and he is. It's the secret to happiness for both of you. -------------- I always wondered why the universe had me hanging out with you guys:) Being in the right place, at the right time, with the right message.