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Been married 37 years now. Spouse still thinks voting makes a difference. Still thinks there is hope in America. Still watches Tucker and believes in muh ‘merica. We agree on a lot, but recently (last 3 years) I’ve seen a big separation on agreement politically. Maybe I’m the fucked up one, but he (yes, he) has always been an optimist. And no, it’s not a gay marriage. I’m a female. But this evening, he was so vitriolic about how negative I am. Said some things to me that, as I type this, makes cry. So hurtful. We are traditional, but damn. Wake up man.

Been married 37 years now. Spouse still thinks voting makes a difference. Still thinks there is hope in America. Still watches Tucker and believes in muh ‘merica. We agree on a lot, but recently (last 3 years) I’ve seen a big separation on agreement politically. Maybe I’m the fucked up one, but he (yes, he) has always been an optimist. And no, it’s not a gay marriage. I’m a female. But this evening, he was so vitriolic about how negative I am. Said some things to me that, as I type this, makes cry. So hurtful. We are traditional, but damn. Wake up man.

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[–] • 1 pt

Only you can fix your own blackpill. For me getting past it was asking what I was willing to do about it. B/c that was less than it would take to fix the situation I simply let it bother me less.

[–] • 3 pts

Ugh. I’ve done this so much in life. Let it go. This, too, shall pass, I suppose, but FUUUUCK!!!!

[–] • 2 pts

I'm not saying that. I'm asking what you're willing to do about it. If the answer falls short of a solution then the reality it's only you letting your conscience torture yourself. Marriage isn't perfect and you took a vow. ATM ur behavior is ocd. I should know. I specialize in being an OCD fuckwit myself on occasion.