I am female and agree with you. I wanted to treat dating like a job interview process, platonically get to know men, and hopefully narrow down on a good one to date to maximize chances of finding a suitable mate.
Due to outside pressures I felt like it was immoral to speak with more than one prospect at a time and would end up wasting huge chunks of time trying to respect a single male I was trying to get to know better.
It was a very ineffective way of finding a partner and I wasted y e a r s.
I think people should aim for more than one prospect at a time as long as they aren't trying to fuck them all for the lulz and just try to make sure they're getting the best fit for them.
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