I’m growing mushrooms too though I did the lazy way and bought a log.
As for family you don’t need a huge house. My advice though is when you are ready treat a relationship like you would a job. Screen the applicant and watch for red flags.
You are young still and as long as you hold your frame there are many women desperate fir a husband a house and kids.
Don’t fall for the doomed meme that all women are sluts
Great advice, thank you very much! Women are still a big issue for me but Im trying to be patient and only give attention to the ones who are worth it. Im still a virgin and pretty much am giving up on actively looking for a girlfriend. Hopefully God will make the right one cross paths with me at the right time. Having many successful children is my main life goal.
I didn’t get married till my 30’s. but don’t wait too long. It took my 30 years to climb out of debt verdure I was ready to settle down and god showed me the perfect woman.
It is possible and I can’t stress enough don’t let women boss you around. Be the leader and they will follow
I was in the military in a red state but the cities directly outside the bases are full of gold digging benefit cheating whores.
If you go out to the smaller towns an hour away there’s a lot of bases women/girls out there. This was at the beginning of social media though so maybe they’ve changed also and think they’re perfect because every selfie the post gets 200 guys fawning over them.
The problem with them was, if I transferred to a new base. We’d have to get married, not a problem. But they would only stay away from home until I got out of the military then wanted to move back to the small town, today I wouldn’t care but back then before Oregon became ultra progressive I wanted to come home and be in a moderate weather rainy climate state.
I came home on leave during my transfer and went to this mid sized town shopping and almost every woman was dressed weird, then I stopped for lunch and the waitresses were dressed the same, I thought they were mennonites or Amish. So I politely asked and they were a Russian orthodox community. Most were hot and red pilled and we talked for a bit.
They invited me to church while I was home, I started seeing one of them at her parents house lol, no going out alone. Then my leave ended but I was only 3 hours away, I came down every few weeks but I met my current girlfriend by accident and she was in Washington right by my base, I thought she’d be like all the others but she wasn’t.
She was from a small town from the same red state I had just left, was working nights and going to school during the day and was red pilled also and would move to Oregon.
I finally broke it off with the orthodox girl even though her family had completely accepted me and were hoping we’d get married because I wasn’t some low T wishy washy man and acted like a real man and provider.
Find an Orthodox Church or a small conservative town and don’t act like a fool or passive(but not aggressive) and you’ll find exactly what your looking for.
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