False. "dicks" is about 4th on the list. Women see " social attention" first and foremost. It's the primary desire when it comes to sex. The more attention (good or bad) to them the better. Attention to women is what sex is to men. They'll do anything for it. Second they see "long term financial security" They're trying to push this down the list by making it irrelevant as they want to be breadwinners and less dependent upon society for need. (it's also why they simultaneously "fight" for the bottom feeders because if they can't be on top they'll be on the bottom... just don't ask them to pull their weight and be in the middle. Third they look at genetic makeup. They prefer tall, muscular and athletic builds. Don't care what race, they want someone they feel can both dominate them sexually and protect them. Facial construction isn't really important to them, and now historical superficial markers are becoming less important.. hair/bald , teeth, jawline, eye color, as they've been brainwashed by MUSIC and movies/t.v. into thinking that "beauty" is a construct. (in nature it's not .it's genetic) Fourth is dick size. they say "size doesn't matter" but it does. Just like vagina size should matter to men. When a woman doesn't get laid her vag WILL shrink. If you fuck your woman and she suddenly couldn't hold a football... get yourself a P.I, surveillance equipment , and (if you're married) a good lawyer. Subsequently , if you can't more than the tip in without her being in severe pain..invest in some good lube and learn to be patient or you'll send her to another guy who isn't so big. Anyways when they tell you "size doesn't matter" just know that what they mean is "it isn't first on the list of importance" but don't ever kid yourself into thinking it doesn't make their top 5 list.