I had someone once stop me in the middle of a sentence, when i was talking to a guy about relationship advice for traditional families, and tell me she was offended that i called myself traditional and not CIS like i should. i told her i dont know what any of those new words are, and that i'm not simply "a woman who happens to be into men" i really like the traditional roles and values etc etc and she blew a gasket telling me that culture/tradition/history of the human relationship was exclusionary of all the gender identities since they have a short sad history and cannot be included in tradition. the mental gymnastics on that they/them person was craaazy