On a similar note. I try to give one free pass to someone if they show something unkind or bad (based on context, some do NOT get a pass depending on what they do). Everyone has a bad day sometimes. It does not mean that I ignore it. Believe who people are when they are telling you. I just try to give them a pass if its not something really bad incase it was just not a good day. I have had a lot of bad days in my life and have been given a little leeway so it would be hypocritical for me to not do the same.