That will never work, and to be honest, there are as many perfectly gentile people doing exactly what anyone else is. We're staring at the answer. Jewishness is, at its core, two things: The union of male and female, and love. We need to continue to transfer our purposes and values to women, who can embody them in society with more energy and voice then we can. We need to understand the power of love - of "deciding" what and how to love, and really giving yourself to it. We just need to be a tribe so good, that we don't falter under attack. Fathers and sons so bound by love, that they can't be turned apart. We have to chose our work in the world, find out what it is right to do - and then love that work completely and unreservedly. That is the game of the Jews. To be able to manipulate their own souls, to build the world they want for themselves. We basically need to stop being losers.