>I've always said 'feelings' are often without moral guidance (cognitive) and is like a rudderless ship. If one looks at why the bible has men leading the church. Exactly. Women's chemistry predisposes them to more emotional responses than men. Hence their natural nurturing traits. It doesn't mean that men can't be nurturing it just means women are naturally better at it barring mental illness / brainwashing. How many marriages that start with a "feeling" of love end up in divorce? When you start a marriage with God's definition of love you are on solid ground.