"called an insult" ??? Anyway, my family thinks I'm very funny, though I remind them that looks aren't everything. Ultra defensive? Yes, I played Safety and Cornerback in high school and was quite good at either position! Not a woman but was once trapped in one, then I was born. As far as Parkes goes, I only heard of him a couple of weeks ago, hardly time to develop a "man crush" as you call it. So yes, I watched his videos and posted things attempting to ascertain the validity of his information - which, thanks to many here, has made me realize that he is more than likely Phach and Ghey...