Im not saying do things that dont feel natural. I was saying be authentic the whole time. Most people dont have a sense of self so they cant handle different people/situations. If youre an expanded person you can usually handle anyone. If you are timid (like I was in the past) people will always walk over you. Its about doing things that feel natural.
Those people likely did things that did not feel natural. Different people and place, same skin colors, things could have been different.
You're pretty level headed.
Heres an audio response for change. https://litter.catbox.moe/0364vy.mp3
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