I have limited and excised a few statements here to attempt in some measure to remain polite.
You say you've experienced racism, and yet you persist in foolishly trying to make friends with people just because "muh blacks and whites are the same", which is essentially treating others different because of their skin color. If you had experienced the anti-white racism I had, you would not be so kind.
How did that work out for the 18 year disabled kid who was tortured by his 'friends'?
How about all the white women raped by their black 'friends'?
How about the black man who was friends with the neighbors, until he shot their 5 year old sons brains out all over the lawn?
Im not saying do things that dont feel natural. I was saying be authentic the whole time. Most people dont have a sense of self so they cant handle different people/situations. If youre an expanded person you can usually handle anyone. If you are timid (like I was in the past) people will always walk over you. Its about doing things that feel natural.
Those people likely did things that did not feel natural. Different people and place, same skin colors, things could have been different.
You're pretty level headed.
Heres an audio response for change. https://litter.catbox.moe/0364vy.mp3
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