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I am 8 weeks pregnant and feel every bit of it. Today I found out I am pregnant with fraternal twins. However, only one has a heartbeat. It's still early enough that the little one could development, or it could be absorbed by it's bigger twin. Either way, I've been crying off and on all day knowing if the heartbeat never comes, I have just lost a child. It's in my heart and spirit. I can't fathom how a woman could turn off this instinct and murder her child willingly. Any woman who says she did this and was "at peace" with it is lying. She is ignoring deep emotion and feeling. My heart breaks for those women so brainwashed they turn this instict off. Our society is very very broken. I can't express to you men how strong this feeling is. To deny it is pathological.

I am 8 weeks pregnant and feel every bit of it. Today I found out I am pregnant with fraternal twins. However, only one has a heartbeat. It's still early enough that the little one could development, or it could be absorbed by it's bigger twin. Either way, I've been crying off and on all day knowing if the heartbeat never comes, I have just lost a child. It's in my heart and spirit. I can't fathom how a woman could turn off this instinct and murder her child willingly. Any woman who says she did this and was "at peace" with it is lying. She is ignoring deep emotion and feeling. My heart breaks for those women so brainwashed they turn this instict off. Our society is very very broken. I can't express to you men how strong this feeling is. To deny it is pathological.

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[–] • 5 pts

My girlfriend was kind of shocked when she heard me say I would murder anyone who tried to kill my child, whether the child was 6 weeks past conception or 6 years old. I think she was more turned on than shocked tbh. It’s insane to me that people could kill their own child. Murderers, the lot of them.

Congratulations, by the way. I hope you have healthy and beautiful twins.

[–] • 4 pts

Perhaps about six months ago, I got into a conversation with a woman who revealed that she had had an abortion.

I didn't really say anything mean to her, I just told her that I thought that it wasn't the best decision.

Mind you, I do live in an extremely liberal city, where anything less than praising abortion outrightly turns you into a misogynist.

But what am I supposed to say? That the decision to murder a child is extremely ethical?

I won't ever say that, because it is a lie.

[–] • 3 pts

I feel for you, tough I have no idea what you're experiencing personally. I sincerely hope all is well and things work out in your favor.

[–] • 3 pts

It's a selfish and horrible thing to do.

But I'm a man, so many would say I'm not allowed to have an opinion.

congrats on the babies!

[–] • 4 pts

I hope in the near future SCOTUS rules in favor to give father's more rights. And thanks!

[–] [deleted] • 2 pts

Your only role in this is to pay child support and like it once she takes the kid and the court without a second thought gives it to her.

[–] • 2 pts

I'm really sorry you're going through that with your children. I hope a heart beat will come in soon. Maybe one day we will have the technology to help it along. I wonder what triggers it's first beat.

[–] • 2 pts

Good luck to the little one.

[–] [deleted] • 2 pts

Those girls are only interested in partying and fucking, they are totally self centered even the one in upper management talking about their careers are only interested in big dicks and booze when it all comes down to it. They don't want to admit even a little that they might like motherhood or put a family ahead of investments. They have been brainwashed since childhood to think this is a bad thing for a woman.

[–] • 3 pts

That's some, maybe most of them but then there are others who have kids already and just don't think they can handle more. It's a lack of regard for human life and a lack of believing and trusting in God.

[–] • 1 pt (edited )

I'm sorry V that's never news anymore wants to hear. Our third pregnancy there was no heartbeat detected either so I know some of how feel. It's a common thing, which helps some people and not others, for me it did give some comfort to.

Our second was not planned, I actully had a IUD in, the judgment we got from that was pretty ridiculous and we were offered or asked a couple of time if we wanted to "go ahead with the pregnancy" planned or not planned abortion was just not someting I could not do. She is a pretty great little girl too.

[–] • 1 pt

That sucks, wish I would have commented sooner. However I'll say I have some idea of your pain as I've seen something similar and its devastating. I hope a heart beat comes but even if it doesn't, remember the one that has one already is a gift. Good luck to you and your family, you will survive this and be stronger for it.