They normalized it, this works with almost anything. We all have sexual urges that can be harnessed. Porn sites were a big part of it, a whole generation has now grown up on it. When I was a kid, we had VHS tapes and magazines that we passed around but that's really different than having it at anyone's fingertips and girls did not watch it. It can't be fixed outside of total war, which cannot happen since there is no capability. When rape is inevitable lay back and enjoy it, or take the easy way out. Most people would rather kill themselves than fight back, that is for certain.