A double-bind or no-win-situation is a tactic used by abusive individuals and groups to victimize their target. When the target does something wrong, they are shamed for it. When the target does something right, their motives are questioned and they are shamed for it. Nothing is ever good enough. The target cannot win, they can only lose. If you can look at an honest or hard-working black person and still cry nigger, then you are an ignorant, abusive piece of shit. A white man recognizes and celebrates the honesty and hard work of others. A white man is a leader in his community who strives for a better future, who works hard and behaves in a fair and moral way and leads by example. A white man has strength, honor, and compassion. When you have to beat others down to feel good about yourself, then you yourself have become the nigger. You are the lowest of the white race. You have no right to call yourself my kin.