Maybe women in general, but I spend alot of time meditating and fixing my flaws. Thats how i fixed my chronic depression, self reflection is why I'm having kids and making sandwhiches and not working construction. But perhaps what you're saying is true, and why I generally don't enjoy the company of the common woman and sought the company of men (platonically). when I find flaws in others, I have to reflect as to why i think thats a flaw, then I will run a diagnostic on myself to make sure I'm not projecting my own flaws onto the other person. I have been able to locate, isolate, and fix my own flaws this way and have become a better person for it. This process has gotten me to the point where I don't need to talk much to have a conversation. This is very effective twords women and allows me to be friends with lots of females despite how we might butt heads otherwise