Regardless, I can't blame a woman for working and suffering pain to change the fucked up face nature gave her, in hopes that it would make someone more willing to pay attention to her soul.
I see it from both sides, I can't fault either of them.
I support the woman in trying to be more than an ugly wretch, and I support the husband in suing her for giving him ugly kids.
Shit sandwich all the way around. Life can be cruel sometimes.
Life is cruel for people wanting to change what they can't. Accept your dealt cards. Change what you can, and forget everything else. I can't change my parents or the circumstances I was born with, but I have done my best to improve on what I can. And even though I'm not happy, I'm satisfied in knowing I'm working on what I can, which are my physique, my career, and my finance.
You, you, you, you, you.....
I don't care about your personal quest to accept your faults and wasn't looking for a life coach.
Simply stated I understand the position of both people in this scenario.
You certainly need a life coach if you seem to think a woman getting a plastic surgery will somehow implicitly change her life for the better.
You CANNOT change the genetic expression through plastic surgery. If she wanted a better life, she should have worked out, learned home making skills, worked on her personality, or learned music.
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