There's a fine line between being deceptive and wanting more. As a woman, your job is to offer your genetic beauty to a worthy man. It's false advertising if you're in any way hiding your genetic expression underneath makeups or plastic surgeries. If you truly want a better life, get in better shape or offer cooking skills. Don't try to change what you can't, which is your god-given lottery of the gene.
Regardless, I can't blame a woman for working and suffering pain to change the fucked up face nature gave her, in hopes that it would make someone more willing to pay attention to her soul.
I see it from both sides, I can't fault either of them.
I support the woman in trying to be more than an ugly wretch, and I support the husband in suing her for giving him ugly kids.
Shit sandwich all the way around. Life can be cruel sometimes.
Life is cruel for people wanting to change what they can't. Accept your dealt cards. Change what you can, and forget everything else. I can't change my parents or the circumstances I was born with, but I have done my best to improve on what I can. And even though I'm not happy, I'm satisfied in knowing I'm working on what I can, which are my physique, my career, and my finance.
You, you, you, you, you.....
I don't care about your personal quest to accept your faults and wasn't looking for a life coach.
Simply stated I understand the position of both people in this scenario.
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