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Have you ever considered that you are just a shitty person and maybe did a shit job of trying to raise your kids? Many people. Myself included WANT family and kids to raise and yet you want to run away? Life is hard sometimes get the fuck over it.

"get my weekends back" What kind of selfish twat are you? No, you want a divorce so you can "live your best life" or some shit while your ex husband pays for it and takes care of the kids so you don't have to.

Fuck that twat. He should have full custody. She should get nothing and have to work at wal-mart or something. She can "get her weekends back" by stocking shelves on the night shift so she can pay rent on a crappy 1br and never see her kids again. Fucking twat.

Maybe she should not have been watching daytime tv and scrolling tikthot all day and actually taken care of her kids and she might not think that way.

I look forward to the possibility that I may be lucky enough to "waste my weekend" taking care of my wife and kids and doing "boring stuff" with them that makes them happy.

Shout out to all of the Dad's and Granddads of poal. (Also all of the Mothers of poal. You all rock). Talking to guys like you @MrFadedGlory I know a bunch of the rest of you have kids or grand kids but I am bad at remembering who. I respect all of you too.

Source: https://www.dailymail.com/lifestyle/family-parenting/article-15871833/husband-10-years-loyal-attractive-divorce-surprise-emma-miles.html

From the post:

>Infidelity wasn't the catalyst for me asking my husband for a divorce. Neither of us had been unfaithful. He wasn't lazy, either – he worked hard as an architect and provided well for me and our two children who, at the time, were three and two. And he hadn't let himself go either; John was as attractive and trim as the day we met. Indeed, I still loved him, profoundly. Yet, after ten years of marriage, I had become absolutely desperate for a separation. Much to my husband's confusion, I announced this after a petty argument about laundry. What I didn't tell him was the reason behind my decision. That I loathed motherhood so much – the 24/7 responsibility, crushing boredom and utter exhaustion of constantly caring for young children – that I craved the freedom shared custody would bring.

Have you ever considered that you are just a shitty person and maybe did a shit job of trying to raise your kids? Many people. Myself included WANT family and kids to raise and yet you want to run away? Life is hard sometimes get the fuck over it. "get my weekends back" What kind of selfish twat are you? No, you want a divorce so you can "live your best life" or some shit while your ex husband pays for it and takes care of the kids so you don't have to. Fuck that twat. He should have full custody. She should get nothing and have to work at wal-mart or something. She can "get her weekends back" by stocking shelves on the night shift so she can pay rent on a crappy 1br and never see her kids again. Fucking twat. Maybe she should not have been watching daytime tv and scrolling tikthot all day and actually taken care of her kids and she might not think that way. **I look forward to the possibility that I may be lucky enough to "waste my weekend" taking care of my wife and kids and doing "boring stuff" with them that makes them happy.** **Shout out to all of the Dad's and Granddads of poal. (Also all of the Mothers of poal. You all rock).** Talking to guys like you @MrFadedGlory I know a bunch of the rest of you have kids or grand kids but I am bad at remembering who. I respect all of you too. Source: https://www.dailymail.com/lifestyle/family-parenting/article-15871833/husband-10-years-loyal-attractive-divorce-surprise-emma-miles.html From the post: >>Infidelity wasn't the catalyst for me asking my husband for a divorce. Neither of us had been unfaithful. He wasn't lazy, either – he worked hard as an architect and provided well for me and our two children who, at the time, were three and two. And he hadn't let himself go either; John was as attractive and trim as the day we met. Indeed, I still loved him, profoundly. Yet, after ten years of marriage, I had become absolutely desperate for a separation. Much to my husband's confusion, I announced this after a petty argument about laundry. What I didn't tell him was the reason behind my decision. That I loathed motherhood so much – the 24/7 responsibility, crushing boredom and utter exhaustion of constantly caring for young children – that I craved the freedom shared custody would bring.
[–] • 6 pts

The hate in me is roaring in anger and crying. I'll never have a family. I will die alone, unloved, without anything to my name.

I want a wife and kids. I'll never have them, because I'm far too messed up by how I was raised and the diseases that have destroyed my body. I would never cheat, not only because I'd never have options but because the idea of it makes me sick. "Polyamory" bullshit makes me sneer in disgust too.

I wanted to be able to live my life, but that was taken from me so many years ago. I wanted to love and be loved, but that will never be in my cards. I want to raise and guide children to be better than me, but that possibility died in the cradle.

And then there's cunts like these whores, who throw everything away to be selfish holes. Where I have a void in my heart and life, she is overflowing with abundance and she tosses it away along with her soul.

You cursed ones, blessed with what so many crave and yet it never sates you. Woe betide you, craven seekers of pleasure. As your soul is as empty as your mind, let your own reflection curse you in the days to come before sanity takes your mind once more and shows you in stark clarity what you have given up.

[–] • 1 pt

Internet hug. You are not alone. I am sorry to hear where you are but you are still not alone. Life sucks sometimes and I agree with you. People that "can have it all but throw it away" suck in every way.

I know it sounds like a tv show or something but I am in the camp of "never say never". This is a community and you are a part of it. This community cares deeply for everyone in it.

[–] • 5 pts

This is crazy on so many levels.

Why would you make this public? Imagine how her kids must feel reading this. Young kids can be a lot of work but as they get older it gets easier. One of the BEST things about weekends is having time to spend WITH your kids. This lady is doing it wrong. So she'd rather go out with single girlfriends and then get plowed by some random then spend an afternoon with her family at the zoo or w/e.

What a stupid whore.

[–] • 2 pts

Dang man, tell us how you really feel!!

I agree though. I love my kids and I love my grand kids, I spend as much time with them as I can. I get really bummed out when I don't see one of them for awhile.

[–] • 2 pts

I don't work so fucking hard every day so I can leave everything my family for hundreds years has built to donate it to the cat shelter we got our little man from. He is awesome and the shelter is great, they are good people. He is still a cat.

I want my family to live on. I don't want to be the last link in the chain that has existed for thousands of years but I also want our family to be bigger than just my wife and myself. I worry about being a father and "fucking it up" but I don't worry about it enough that I am not going to try. It's not like my upbringing was great so there is that.

I should leave the rest of my rant to a DM or something. Dox and such.

I have a lot of feelings about things like this. This is not something that happened to me but I did see something similar happen to a friend a very long time ago because "woman wanted to do thing". Kid stayed with dad and would go see "mom" once a year. Shitty, right?

[–] • 1 pt

Shitty, yes, but I'd rather keep the kids than the woman if she is that type!!

[–] • 2 pts

I'll bet this cunt didn't deliver her kids naturally (got a scheduled C-section for both of them) and then when they were born, fed them formula instead of breastfeeding. She is a waste of oxygen and the only value she has provided to this world is to be a living example of how to not live a life.

[–] • 2 pts

It appears this broad pissed away all her oxytocin reserves by possibly riding the carousel for years before settling down. That's why she feels nothing towards her children. Many such cases, sadly. But then again, the most insufferable and manipulative people must be cut off as early as possible. If a cancer tumor was a person, it'd be them. Maybe he should consider himself lucky that he got off that easy.

[–] • 2 pts (edited )

Every single time, idealized life takes over your mind. It's not real, but it's compelling. Like a painting at the louvre, you stare at it and wish you could be in it. Reality is harsh. Drugs, affairs, work all seem like the answer, it never is.

Even if that article isn't real, the conceptual aspect is. The illusion, the blame, the feelings are. Not everyone is able to make it as a parent and yet, here we are. Like taking your first sip of alcohol, becoming a parent is easy, it's all the rest that comes after that is not.

I find it unlikely a mother would actually write that piece, but it's plausible. And no, people don't think of themselves as being the problem: they're victims. They justify their behavior, they ignore the elephant in the room. People have been lied to and given justifications to not do the right thing.

[–] • 3 pts

I agree, it’s likely not real, but part of the psyop of making people hate children and strong families to reduce the birth rate even more so we have to invite in more 3rd world invaders as a workforce.

[–] • 2 pts

This smells like a cheap house trailer - manufactured.

[–] • 2 pts

Dittos. At least the "get my weekends back" cunt didn't murder her kids like so many crazy internet bitches seem to do...

Just wait until she's retired, starved and physically abused in a care home wondering why her kids never visit.

Oh gee that's right, she will probably euthanized before that happens.

[–] • 0 pt

I’ve never wanted to strike a woman, until now.