It's easy to blame the tools... GUNS kill people! DRUGS make me hear voices! TWITTER AND FACEBOOK ruined my reputation! I've fucked up enough times in my life to realize that, yes, there are extenuating circumstance that could have made my life better / worse, but the one constant is ME. I call it personal responsibility. My parents can only be partially blamed for my first 17 years, after that, it's ALL ON ME.