This is what happens when you let the mentally ill try and call the shots on things - they play constant headgame fuckery in an attempt to make you twist into a pretzel playing a "pick me" dance for them, while they constantly change the goalposts. The only way to deal with these Cluster B fuckwits is to ignore them, or if they're getting mouthy, to mock them openly. If that fails, slog them in the mouth. > White Men As Full Diversity Partners argues that the “roots of white male culture” include traits such as “rugged individualism,” “a can-do attitude,” “hard work,” “operating from principles,” and “striving towards success”—which are “devastating” to women and minorities. So, in short, they're saying that they're racing to the bottom to lower the standards bar so low that it goes through the floor.