No. I never went to college and no, they are not all the same. To my observation, you can clearly see the difference just driving through a black neighborhood. They will spend an outrageous amount of money on a car that then sits in a trashy yard. Trash everywhere and little maintenance being done to make their areas look decent. Constant drama and fighting in the streets, loud shit going on at all hours with no respect for other people, murders, drugs, skanky ho fighting over perceived offenses. I used to hang out on my nights off at a Denny's just to watch the blacks come in and fight. They never bothered me for what ever reason but it was like entertainment to see all them bitches tearing each other up. Most of the guys were from the Navy. Finally MP's came one night and went around recording all the passes on the car windows after they had been banned from the area by the Navy. Maybe you are referring to my friend from grade school? His mom was friends with my Grandma and he had been getting picked on just for being black and finally came home and cried to his mom saying "Why did I have to be born black". That kid never did anything to deserve being teased or hassled and was always a decent kid. I have no idea who was talking shit to him at school but I got along fine with him. In boarding high school I was forced to room with a black kid because we were fighting so often with him calling me a stupid honkey and me calling him a nigger. Right in class which was hilarious. So, putting us in a room together was supposed to force us to get along. After a few fist fights which accomplished nothing he finally gave up trying to take me on and just lived peaceably with me. Yes, he was still ghetto scumbag but at least we finally got along. I won't say we were every really friends as between us we really had no common understanding other than he wasn't going to win a fight and it gets old calling each other names. He quit calling me honky and I quit calling him nigger. Live and let live. It's not like I could change him or him change me. I'm gonna go on sitting at my desk, reading and studying and he's gonna keep being a loud mouthed bragger.