Same. I think it's more important for girls to keep people together. I come from a pretty liberal area/family and hope that overtime I can help some of them walk a more decent life, so I'll keep the morons around in hopes they eventually want to help themselves. I find a lot of dudes on Voat would talk about running their mouths off inappropriately at a family gathering, ruining the entire holiday, and getting disowned by their entire family. A lot were blackpilled/didn't give a fuck/spoke a lot about being lonely and disconnected from the world. Socially I pretend to be libertarian and very centered (disappointed with both parties and talk about how both are leading to a degrade in our quality of life). When I'm speaking gently to someone and skimming the surface I'll only start digging in if they seem receptive or are redpilled themselves. Only on occasion I'll get to have real conversations. I have to try to balance with a life among liberals who don't do the big thonks. It's very closeted views. Talking to them would bounce right off and disintegrate into nowhere. If their mentality is too far from me I'll hold my breath, smile, nod, and wait for an opportunity to get the conversation the hell away from politics.