Don't tell your wife anything.
"She's not your wife anymore" is very common.
Don't tell your kids anything either.
A relatively quick death isn't looking so bad anymore.
Really disagree with that. My wife is awesome. I tell her everything that's burdening my heart.
Good luck with that.
I'm sure she won't report all the illegal shit you're doing to the cops when she gets mad.
I understand what you're saying. I feel the impetus, particular for those who've been burned. If God exists (I think he does) then the love between a man and a woman is one of his great gifts. If you can't trust your wife, unwife her. Family is the most important thing in this world.
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