Herein lies the reason she's a whore. Weak father figure. My father would have disowned me after he beat my butt , and kicked me the hell out of his house. I respected him too much to ever do something like she did. As far as the cop honoring his wife, it's the public humiliation she suffered that will take a long time to heal. That might land him in divorce court. The rules: don't screw around but if you mess up, don't confess because you feel guilt, and don't ever make you're whoring public.