I call that reverse ethnocentrism, it's a form of ethnocentrism but inverted, in the sense that people suffering from it tend to believe that other ethnic groups/racial groups, see the world just like them. It's exactly like ethnocentrism except that people suffering from it will go to great lengths to prove the world that they aren't ethnocentric, racist essentially to put it simply, in the sense of favoring in-group acceptance and out-group rejection, over the contrary, which they tend to advocate for, and that's why as a result, some people call them race traitors
I use the term "suffering" because it's a mostly detrimental condition, as the OP demonstrates above... That's what happens when you invite an afghan under your roof, as a single woman with a daughter, and expect him to behave like an ethnic german raised in germany... That's not how it works, he's ethnic afghan raised in afghanistan and his name is abdul, not karl the ethnic german raised in germany...
It sounds dumb and evident once said like that, but that woman above, nobody explained her and/or she didn't want to understand when someone tried to explain that to her, and that's the result
Your explanation is better than mine might have been.
I would add that women are carers, nurturers and that can and is being exploited.
Men need to speak up, articulate well and have their voices heard.
Oh I don't claim the absolute truth on the matter, that's just how I interpret what's roughly going here IMO, socially speaking in relation to that type of news and immigration, because this is not an isolated instance unfortunately, there's a repeating pattern which disproportionately affect women also for the reasons you exposed
There's clearly a "misunderstanding" at play here, an incapacity to see the danger to which she exposed herself
And we can always blame "abdul" for being who he's and what he did, because of course he has his share of responsibility here, but this was to be expected... It could have been avoided, because this was highly predictable. It's extremely irresponsible to put an afghan male freshly out of afghanistan under the roof of a single german mother and her daughter in germany... Of course he will believe all sorts of things and he won't take no for answer, it's a medieval type of guy with an islamic background what do people expect?
Men need to speak up, articulate well and have their voices heard.
Why??. No modern woman wants to listen to a man, nor will any group/ organization/ media promote such 'old fashioned and out-dated ideas'.
Modern woman do listen to men. Men they admire, love or are attracted to.
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